This is it.
life goes on huh.
forget about everything i said.
as i said, i was simply trying to wallow in self-pity for a while. it makes me feel good in a way. but i don't mean much of it.
Hardly anyone reads my blog anyway, except anonymous people, so this is kinda like a diary or some sort.
forget about everything i said.
as i said, i was simply trying to wallow in self-pity for a while. it makes me feel good in a way. but i don't mean much of it.
Hardly anyone reads my blog anyway, except anonymous people, so this is kinda like a diary or some sort.
posted by michelle at 9:44 AM
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Anonymous people might know you; they have names too, just that they don't leave it.
oh well, I think if they really cared or what, they would leave at least their initials.. if they wanted to give some constructive criticism, they'll still leave their name..unless there's some sort of a discord between me and that anonymous where they just want to say something not daring to put down their name.. sigh.
I don't proclaim to know you well, but in the few times I've spoken to you, you seem very guarded and you don't "continue the conversation". I guess everyone likes talking to friendly people, when you become wary and guarded, the conversation will always stay superficial. Maybe that's what psychologists call self-disclosure? (:
i am another anonymous different from the previous anonymous.. i might leave my initials behind but it doesnt means we dont care just that we cared in a different manner and i do check ur blog often for ur updates in ur life as i feel u are a nice friend worth keeping in contact with although it seems one way.. hah
to the anonymous who doesn't 'proclaim to know [me] well':
oh well, you know sometimes it's just natural for anyone to stay on their guard when interacting with people whom they're not familiar with.. the fact that you don't know me well is safe enough to say that we don't converse that much in the first place yah? conversations will probably stay superficial should this infrequent contact persists. also, there probably isn't much common ground between the both of us to talk about other stuff right? I'm sorry if I've offended you if i hadn't "continued the conversation". sometimes i run out of things to ask, sometims i'm just too tired to ask, and other times - no offence - but the listener is often not that interested in me in the first place. Also, self-disclosure is only when you disclose the very inmost information about yourself - this happens especially with close and trusted companions. Since i've only spoken to you a 'few times', it's just against my nature to suddenly spurt out something personal to you. it'll probably scare you if i did too. heh.
to the other anonymous:
I really appreciate you checking my blog every now and then, in fact, i'm encouraged to know i've got a 'virtual' supporter even thought i don't even know you. do stick around and give me any advice on anything, should the occassion arise. I guess you're right, that comments do indicate some care in one way or another (I mean, if they really didn't care, they wouldn't comment in the first place right..). so, maybe you could give some initials (fake ones if you must) so that i may remember you the next time you comment? thnks. =)
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